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Emotional Roadblocks to Reason – Part 1

by John-Paul
February 15th, 2012

abortion roadblockIt takes a lot of courage to face the truth when it stirs your emotions by conflicting with something within you. Most people can’t do it.

Before you say to yourself, “surely, not I” – I really mean MOST people can’t do it. You and I are quite possibly some of those people.

However, as pro-lifers we tend to assume that everyone can face the truth and change if simply given the truth. We tend to assume that the truth will overcome those strong emotions. But what do emotions do?

Emotions motivate, they move people.

Does the truth really move people?

Nope.

An emotional response to the truth might move someone. But, the pure truth itself rarely does that for the average person.

There have been studies with people whose emotional centers of their brains had been injured. These people are given very basic decisions to make like which cereal to buy. We would think that given no emotion and pure reason that these people would quickly find the best cereal through the use of their reason. (not being swayed by an irrational affinity for a talking toucan, for example)

That doesn’t happen.

In fact, they are paralyzed by the decision and it takes hours to decide.

Why is this the case?

Emotion plays a huge part in our decision making process as humans.

So, what does this have to do with abortion?

Abortion is a very simple, black and white type of issue right? Yes, it is very simple in terms of biology. It is very simple in terms of morality and it is very simple in terms of law.

However, it is not at all simple in terms of emotion. The failure to recognize that fact is a detriment to our pro-life efforts.

Emotion is the gatekeeper to reason.

If we ignore emotion, we will only reach someone’s reason by chance.

In my last post, I talked about how my goal in talking about abortion is to discover and overcome what emotional roadblocks someone has.

So, in this post and the next, I’d like to talk about the different types of emotional roadblocks that you may encounter.  Here are the first two types:

Roadblock #1 – Identity

This is a really big one. I see this all the time.

“I’m not one of THOSE people” – “I’m ‘this’ type of person and ‘this’ type of person doesn’t oppose abortion.” – “Educated people are pro-choice (and I’m educated)” – “Pro-life people are all religious fanatics and I’m not a religious fanatic so I’m pro-choice”

This is probably the most common. It involves the lowest commitment to being pro-choice and the smallest amount of thought or reflection.

What this comes down to is repeating the common mentality. People want their concept of themselves to be consistent. If the culture says that the type of person they think they are is pro-choice then they conform.

This is why you hear so many people repeat the exact same phrases word-for-word when defending their position on abortion. They didn’t come up with those phrases. They probably haven’t even really thought about them. Generally, they just repeat them…

I’m sure you’ve seen this before.

This is also why you hear a lot of people who support abortion default to an anti-religious argument or to a political argument. This happens a lot to me and others.

You know how it goes… You’re just starting an abortion discussion and the first argument offered by your friend is that you shouldn’t force your religion on people. The irony is that the pro-choice person is usually the only one who brings up religion in these cases!

Why does this happen? Well, they just know that they aren’t religious and so they must not be pro-life.

Nobody wants to have an identity crisis. Challenging someone’s identity is a very emotionally charged experience. The fact is if you challenge someone’s belief about something when that belief is tied to their concept of their own identity, you are forcing a mini-identity crisis.

When someone is in a mini-identity crisis, they will not be thinking with reason, only with emotion. Rationalizations will abound to restore order to that person’s sense of self.

All of this has very little to do with reason and a lot to do with emotion.

Roadblock #2 – Personal Connection

Abortion is pervasive. It is, unfortunately, way too common.

Personal abortion stories are rarely talked about because of the shame and hurt associated with them. However, the mother is rarely the only one involved and sometimes these experiences are shared with close friends and relatives.

This creates a difficult emotional position for someone who has a close friend who’s had an abortion. The deep bond of friendship and love makes it very emotionally difficult to oppose abortion. This is because it is hard for many people to separate the act and the individual.

So, what ends up happening is that the friend of the post-abortive woman feels compelled to defend her BFF when the subject of abortion comes up. To assent to the logic and science that clearly show that abortion is wrong is to betray her friend. So, she defaults to defending abortion in order to defend her friend.

As you can see, this defense of abortion has nothing to do with reason or science and everything to do with emotions.

More Coming Soon

As you can see, these first two emotional roadblocks bypass reason. Maybe these are what’s behind some pro-choice people in your life who seem so utterly irrational?

I have a few more types of emotional roadblocks that I will discuss in the next post. For now, what do you think of the first two? Have you encountered these? Have you successfully gotten around the roadblock?

Please comment below!

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A New Mandate: The Poor Will Suffer

by John-Paul
February 13th, 2012

As you may have heard by now, the Health and Human Services Department has issued a mandate that all private health insurance plans must offer coverage for all FDA-approved “contraceptive services” without copay or deductible. “Contraceptive services” includes: sterilization, abortifacients, and contraception.

This means that an employer must now, by law, pay for a plan that includes sterilization, abortifacients, and contraception. This is clearly a problem for those employers (and individuals for that matter) who morally object to sterilization, abortifacients, or contraception.

This causes serious problems…

Problem 1: No Options for You

If you morally or religiously objects to sterilization, abortifacients, or contraception, you have no options for health insurance. All private and public plans will cover these things.

If you are like me and want nothing to do with anything that causes an abortion because it takes a human life then you will be forced to pay for the destruction of human life in order to have health insurance.

Basically the government wants to force you to choose between your life and health and the life of pre-born children.

Actually, they don’t want you to choose. Obamacare’s individual mandate (if upheld in court) will force you to have to have a health insurance policy. So, if you are altruistic and are willing to give up your own health and life for the sake of the pre-born, you’ll have to pay a fine to the government to be allowed to do that.

Problem 2: No More Religious Freedom

This is the problem that you’ve probably heard the most about. Religious run schools, hospitals and charitable institutions will be required to provide ‘contraceptive services’ with their insurance plans. As you know, many of these institutions are run by religious organizations (the largest of which is the Catholic Church) that explicitly teach as a tenant of morality that these services are contrary to their belief and practice.

So much for the free exercise of religion…

These institutions could be fined $2,000 per employee per year that they do not provide this government mandated insurance. For Catholic Charities, which has about 70,000 employees and serves about 10 Million poor people each year that amounts to $140,000,000 a year in fines just because they want to practice their religion (the practice of which happens to help 10 Million people a year!).

Do you really think Catholic Charities can afford an extra $140 Million a year? The poor will suffer while suppliers of birth control get richer.

In conclusion…

  1. Your rights are being thrown under the bus.
  2. Freedom of Religion is being thrown under the bus.
  3. Millions of poor people served by religious organizations are being thrown under the bus.

With this type of power, it won’t be long before direct abortions are mandated.

With this type of power, the ‘healthcare’ lobbyists that can front the most money will get special governmental treatment at our expense.

What You Can Do: Two things that take two minutes!

  1. Contact Congress: Click here to easily send an email to your Representative in support of the ‘Respect for Rights of Conscience Act’
  2. Share this post with your friends and family.

Thank you for standing with me for life, freedom and human dignity.

P.S. It appears that the ‘Compromise’ put forth by President Obama is merely a rewording of the initial rule.

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Cupcakes at the Capitol 2012!

by Emily
February 9th, 2012

Do you love LIFE? 

Join us for Cupcakes at the Capitol on Wednesday, March 7th, 2012 in Springfield as we meet with pro-life lobbyists and state legislators to inform them about upcoming bills concerning pro-life issues.

This is your opportunity to affect pro-life policy in Illinois! We are looking for students who are passionate about the pro-life cause and not afraid to share their beliefs and values.

A brief overview of the day:
-Meet with pro-life lobbyists in Springfield to discuss some of the key legislation that will be voted on this session
-Bring cupcakes to state senators and representatives from your home district and tell them why they should vote pro-life
-Write follow up letters and have a round table discussion about your experiences
-Get to know other pro-life students from all around the state!

We are looking for students to bake and individually wrap approximately 275 cupcakes to be brought to the legislators and also students interested in lobbying on Wednesday, March 7th. To sign up, click here! You must register by March 2nd. We hope to see you there!

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Do Not Be Discouraged by The Komen Take-Down

by John-Paul
February 7th, 2012

Last week was a roller coaster!

We had Komen, whom pro-lifers have pushed to drop PP for a long time, finally drop their funding of the abortion giant. Then, after Komen was crushed by Planned Parenthood’s media machine, they gave in.

Now, Planned Parenthood is about $3 Million dollars richer and what was once a small but sweet victory is now bitter defeat.

There are both good things and bad things that happened here. I don’t want you to get discouraged!

So, here’s some of the good…

Good: Planned Parenthood showed their true colors. They knew about this news for 6 weeks before saying anything publicly. They used that time to plan the Komen take-down. It’s hard to uphold their ‘pro-woman’ image when they plan the take down of other pro-woman organizations that cross them.

Good: Other businesses and organizations who were paying attention will now think twice about ever affiliating with or supporting PP publicly.

Good: Now EVERYONE knows that Komen supports the abortion industry. (many people didn’t believe it before)

Good: Now EVERYONE knows that PP doesn’t actually do mammograms. (one of PP’s best marketing ploys is gone)

Good: The google search traffic for terms like ‘how many abortions does planned parenthood do’ tripled during the three main days of the controversy. I saw a noticeable increase in traffic and pro-choice interaction on whyprolife.com. The more people learn about PP the better.

Moving Forward

We must be careful to show PP’s true colors. What they did was clearly the premeditated bullying of another non-profit to get their money. We want people to remember that Planned Parenthood is not pro-woman and they are not going to play nice with pro-woman organizations that get in their way.

What do you think? Are there any other examples of good things coming from this situation?

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Call Komen

by John-Paul
February 1st, 2012

KomenWhenever someone makes a difficult public decision, they need support to know that they made the right decision.

Well, the Susan G. Komen Foundation is getting some backlash from deciding not to support abortion giant Planned Parenthood.

Please take just a moment to either call or write the Susan G. Komen foundation and thank them for removing their funding from Planned Parenthood. Let them know that this action will increase your support and good will towards their organization!

Phone: 1-877 GO KOMEN (1-877-465-6636)

Email: news@komen.org

This only takes a second and it is very important! Please call now!

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